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Interesting Thought

At the suggestion of Sas, I have started reading My Sister’s Keeper by Jodi Picoult, which I was able to get unabridged from Audible. I’m about two hours into the book and I’m absolutely hooked. The thing is, it really brings up some interesting questions about ethics. The book is about a family with three kids. The oldest girl has a rare form of Leukemia, and the younger daughter was pretty much hand-picked to be her perfect match donor. I’ve actually heard of parents who have chosen to have another child to attempt to save the life of another, but I’ve never heard of anyone going quite this far to make it happen. It’s really bringing up some interesting questions for me though. In my mind I’m asking how any parent could create a living human for the sole purpose of using him/her to save someone else. But, at the same time I’ve never had kids, I don’t know what it feels like to watch someone you love die slowly and painfully, and therefore I can’t put myself into the shoes of these parents who did this. I’m not normally one to analyze the books I read, and that’s why I had such a hard time in school trying to dissect books. When I read I read for the fun of it, not to determine why the main character did this or that. This book though has changed all that.

I think the book is made even more enjoyable by the fact that it alternates between each person’s viewpoint, and each time this happens a different narrator takes up the reading. So it’s as if you start to actually hear the voices of the characters. I’ve actually heard of this author before, and started reading Salem Falls, but haven’t gotten very far with it, not because I didn’t like it, but because I don’t seem to have any time to actually really read. At least with audio books I can do things while I’m reading. I’m going to see what other books Audible has by Jodi. This book is definitely worth the read though.

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World Wide Web, Wow!

Okay, I really got a shock today. I definitely know that the Internet is all over the place, and has been for years, but today showed me something really interesting. Over time I’ve learned to really watch what I say, both in general and on public listservs. Now I totally understand why that is.

I was looking for someone tonight, and started putting the first and last name into a search engine using quotation marks. After a while I decided to do the same thing with my own name. I got many different results, ranging from a web site I created through an ISP back in the late 90s, to my company’s web site, and I guess most surprising, a couple of emails that I had sent to public lists that had been forwarded by others to a different list. I read through the messages, and was very happy to note that I had said nothing that I wouldn’t have said to anyone in person. I’ve seen people’s email messages that were meant to be private messages sent publicly, so I always really try to make sure that I don’t mess up, but I do wonder sometimes. Knowing that everything I say online could potentially be sent all over the world though is just huge to me! Anyway, did any of what I just said make any sense? SMILE!

In other news, I sold my PlexTalk. I know, it’s really sad, and I’m going to miss it. But, the good news is that I placed the order this morning for my Book Port. Sad news again though, they’re on backorder until the end of the month, so it’s going to be a couple of weeks before I get my new toy! Oh well, at least I’ve still got the PlexTalk until my Book Port comes. Jim pulled out the PlexTalk braile manual this morning so I’ll be able to turn that over with the unit. This book is absolutely huge, and can be a bit interesting sometimes to understand what they’re saying, but at least it’s accessible.

Well, I’ve got to work tomorrow morning, so I suppose I should really get going. I need to start writing more here again though.

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Firsts and Lasts

FIRSTS…

First real best friend: I think that would have to be Shannon. We met when we were six years old, and we still email back and forth twenty-three years later.

First school: Technically my first school was West Side Elementary School. I was there for Kindergarten.

First cell phone: Oh man! It was an ancient Startech 1000 flip phone back in 1999. It was small compared to most phones of those days, but I was lucky if I got an hour of use, and even on stand-by time the battery life was terrible.

First funeral: I honestly don’t remember. I try to avoid funerals as a general rule.

First pet: I remember this like it was yesterday. I was three, and my oldest sister came home with a kitten who was the runt of the litter, had been malled by a dog, and kicked around by cows. His name was Hutch, and he was one of the gentlest cats! That cat ended up being close to 20 pounds, so being the runt didn’t affect him any. I think he lived for at least fourteen or fifteen years, and if I remember right he went away from home to die.

First piercing/tattoo: I got my ears pierced just before going into second grade when I was seven. Since then I’ve added two more holes in each ear.

First big trip: This is really hard to remember exactly what was first because we used to travel all the time. I guess my first big trip was probably to Idaho when I was a kid because we used to always go out there to visit my gramma every summer.

First flight: I was eight. I started flying home from school on weekends, so my first flight was by myself on one of those little two-engine prop planes. I’ve been addicted to flying ever since!

First time out of the country? I was probably about five. We went to Mexico. I don’t really remember it all that well though. If we’re talking about trips that i remember, it would be the trip I got to take to Canada during my sophomore year of high school. We got to go up there and sing in a choir with the Ohio School for the Blind and the school in Canada. I still have the audio files from that concert. It was GREAT!

First date: Well, when I was a kid I really didn’t call this a date since I wouldn’t have been allowed to go if I’d said it was a date. It was probably in eighth grade and this guy had a crush on me. A lot of kids called him a nerd, but I always thought he was really cool. His name was Adam. We went to a couple of movies and one time we even went roler skating.

First job: I worked for a domestic abuse shelter the summers between ninth and tenth grade and tenth and eleventh grade. It was through the PIC program. It was a really great experience for me, but it was also very hard and I learned a lot about life in those two summers.

LASTS…

Last person you hugged: That would have been Jim

Last car ride: Last night I rode in a van to and from the casino. Do vans count?

Last time you cried? I have absolutely no idea.

Last movie you watched: Nanny McFee, twice. I loved that movie!

Last person of the opposite sex that you talked to: Jim

Last shirt worn: A plain ordinary t-shirt, which I’m still wearing until I get ready for bed.

Last phone call: I think it was to a neighbor. I was talking to him about my new keyboard and about the guy who he thinks can fix my poor sickly embosser.

Last instant message: Yesterday afternoon I was messaging with one of my committee members who is helping me plan exhibits for our WSVH reunion coming up in June.

Last thing you touched: My braile display so that I could route the cursor to the spot I wanted it to go.

Last Funeral: I think it may have been Jim’s grandpa back in what, 2001?

Last time at the mall: When I went to see Nanny McFee. Does that count since I didn’t shop?

Last time you were excited about something: When I was going to go gambling last night.

Last person you saw: Jim

Last thing you drank: Lemonade. I’m still working on it now.

Last person that broke your heart: I’ve been really lucky when it comes to dating-type relationships, but some regular friendships haven’t been quite so great.

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Thought Provoking

Every once in a while I hear something that really makes me think. That’s true of the song, Runaway Go Home by the Gatlin Brothers. Not only is it just a great song, but it also carries a message. I’ve compressed it for posting here, but if anyone is interested in a higher quality version just send me an email and I’ll email it. Check it out and see what you think.

Runaway Go Home

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Valentine’s Day Memory Take Two

Okay, so I had this entire entry written and went to post it, only to find that the page had timed out. When I went back to the previous page my entry was gone. I wasn’t very happy.

Anyway though, I was writing about something that I did when I was in third grade.

I went to the Wisconsin School for the Visually Handicapped for first through third grade, and then again for ninth through twelfth grade. The school was small, and people pretty much knew everyone else. I got it into my head that everyone in my part of the school needed a valentine card that year, and I was going to see that it happened.

Like most kids, I always got into the parties, (I know, not much has changed since then), and I loved the candy and other treats, and of course the Valentines themselves. I wanted to make sure that every kid got something.

Somehow my parents got a list of the kids and helped me stuff envelopes with the cards, and I think there may have been some candy in them as well. I remember being selective as to what went into certain cards.

Delivering them was interesting too. The doors of the class rooms had these little pocket things that were used for attendance slips, and I got to go around putting packets of cards in each of these pockets. I think that may have been one of the first times that I ever considered myself to be short. (These days I’m only about 5 feet 2 inches, and that’s with shoes on.)

Anyway, I got things delivered, and if I remember right I kept this up for a couple more years once I was in public school; only for my immediate class though.

Well, in other news, just after losing my original post we got a delivery from Peapod so we’ve got groceries for a while. I’m really depressed because it was about 50 degrees outside today, and by Friday we’re supposed to have several inches of snow and a high of 20. I may choose to crawl into a hole and just stay there until April.

Well, I suppose, before I lose this post too I’m going to post it. Believe me, I’m going to copy it before posting just in case I have to write it again!!!

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